Thursday, August 20, 2009

I am right, you are right, So, who is wrong? Part--1

As I entered in 6th sem, it was really good feeling that soon I will be in 4th year. In 6th sem again i had to make the mini project in group. This time I had to make a new group. It was a good opporutunity for me that Vivek Mishra kept the offer before me to be part of his group. I was very glad that I will get a chance to work with a very –very dedicated and workaholic person. It was a good chance that I will head toward the hard work in study leaving my laziness and I will give some time to project from the part of my day schedule. That day, for some hour I had a myth that my group size is only two (me and Vivek Mishra) and that was the best thing. But after some hour I was introduced with three others personality Sonam, Sanjhi and Titiksha. I was in dilemma whether I should be continuing with Vivek or should be search another person for own group. Beacause my past experience with the girl was not so good that I could even think to work with girls. My interaction with my school’s girl was not healthy due to my proudy nature. Usually I used to seek the chance to mess up with the class girls. Sometimes gals complained the princi against me and I some time escaped from punishment and some time was punished too. It did not bring any change in me but it made relation worst with them. I was confused whether to go with Vivek or to make new group.
This time I fliped the coin, took decision to work with Vivek and not to be very strict that time. First introduction was not much interisting but I got a chance to read their (girls’) nature.
Sonam is smart and very tough gal but she listen carefully other by which she can be convinced easily with proper argument.
Titiksha is Bindas by nature and talkative cute doll. If you are with her, you need not to do or speak anything. Just tune her like radio she will continue on that frequency.:)
Sanjhi, she is still unexplored for me, I could not understand her due to her mysterious nature. One thing I usually observed she pretend to listen carefully but she does not listen and she is also expert in making excuse. While I am with her, I never find her with me, usually I found a facade on her face. I am trying to find out which searching technique she is using to make excuse according to arised situation. . :)
Siddhartha Sir assigned us a project to work through out semester. There was nothing in project except an algorithm, what we had to devlop. The most interisting part of the project was that I resolved the fight more than doing work or say I did not do anything.
Beginnig of problem: First Sonam had argument with Vivek and I had to resolve the matter because I don’t want the dissimination of the group. Soon conversation became smooth due to our collective efforts. After few days Sanjhi messed up with Vivek and this time it was being seen hard to resolve the matter. And Siddhartha Sir warned us that if you are not changing, he would dissiminate the group. For group sake I became a little bit diplomatic and persuaded both of them.
I could not flee from the same situtation, after few months I had bad arguements with Vivek and after argument we both did not talk with each other for 4 or 5 days. After some times I realized that due to this action a big problem is hovering on group. So I decided to initiate conversation. In place of having direct conversation I decided to interact with him through FACEBOOK. Vivek wrote a very good about the freindship and I put the bitter and true comment on that.
“But the friendship becomes hell if no one is ready to understand.”
It worked and Vivek put a comment on my comment.
“But the understanding should be mutual.”

Yes, this was right too. Due to this next day we were talking again.
As I told that I did not work on project, my role was to make compromisation among the group members. The whole project was made by Vivek. I was learning JSP and had learnt almost enough part that I could make a good project. But as soon as it came to my knowledge that project has been worked out. So I just leaved the learning and headed towards my prior work. Every one had regret and complain too that they did not get chance to do anything.
In viva voce, only Vivek made out everything. We were numb because we did not do anything due to having no practical knowledge every question became hard to answer. Sonam and Sanjhi answered the few questions. But it was tough very tough for me to answer the question without having practical and I was a little bit upset too. Titiksha also did not answer. And after all we all had marks as a charity excluding Vivek. He asked us that we all got 25 plus which did not bring any smile on our face.

2 comments:

  1. Well!!!!
    Its interesting to know that you took those fights so seriously.But u know those fights are d part of d process of being successful group members and ..............

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  2. hi....
    i just go through this blog...1st thing is that it's vey good for your english ..
    but i think that you should have to change your attitude towards girls..some time it may be happen that working with girls cause ao much problem..but my friend our future is in corporate world and you will always be ready to work in any environment.kahir...idont know much about the named girl..but pradeep ,leave this roudiness...it just detoriorate yourself,no one other..in todays ...group working is very important.and for surviving in corporate world 1 should be a good worker....

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