It's time to spread the layout for the year 2016 and draw a blurry picture how it should go. So, it's time for making some ground rules, todo list, taking new oath and making promises to my selves. By so far 2015, everything seems going right with some glitches and with some inner realisation. I felt I am dragging in career and not living the dream. I was being timid to bet big. I hope this year I will not be repeating the same mistake. Anyway, I am going to write the rules, resolution and promises...
Speak the mind
Most of the time I am hiding to say something, be it with close friend and sometime I was being diplomatic in corporate communication. I don't know what I wanted to save or achieve. So, I realise things must be stated directly in plain grammar and simple words instead of masking the intention behind the heavy sentences.
Take Risks
Now, I realise that I should have taken the leap in many opportunities, I let many opportunities slip away in lack of data. All the datas are never available anytime neither it will be. So, to fill the gap let the intuition guide the decision and action. It's one sacred force which guides you correctly and it must be heard closely when the decision is going to change your life. The Intuition seems a bridge between the universe and oneself. Now, I realise that when the intuition was guiding me to take different paths, make big investment, start new business or chose my better half and I took the decisions favouring the available data instead of listening my inner voice.
So in terse word let the intuition guide my action and let the grit follow the intuition.
So take risk, live the life without repents. If things have to go wrong it will go wrong no matter how much I control. So taken actions are better than repent. Is not it?
Invest in character and knowledge
Some one said that investing in yourself is one of the best investment. Nobody is going to tax on your knowledge and the character you build will last forever. Money can go away, the job can be snatched anytime and physical beauty can disappear in many ways. It's the character and knowledge will appreciate with the time whereas the physical thing will depreciate. So, my character and personality should not be crippled what I wear or how I look.
So, read a lot of things and nourish the mind and soul.
Move to leadership position
The time has come to do the things differently. It's the time to compile the energy and resources and come with the force. Improve communication skills and let the people know that I am the Elephant in the room who was asleep and now it's waking up and who can't be ignored. It's showtime be the one hell of example.
Be Open, Be Social and Expand the reach
I was very reluctant to be open to the world. Be it going to parties, be it going on blind date or be it even going on date with the people I knew. My worlds were confined with selected no. of peoples, I was happy with that. Now I realise that if you give the people more importance or contact them more frequent, they dubbed you useless and you take the suffer. My Bad, I am being negative here, but it's fucking true and it can't be ignored.
Any way, I don't think I am going to change in this case. So, I am going to stick with my people only. Only the privileged one will get the entry in my world. Still I am not going to be open, I am not to be social and obviously reach will be expanded but not the sake of some personal things. It's will be pure business.
Yeah sometime suffering is the worth for the peoples, I have much regards. How should I tell I love you a lot? I am not going to let any body infiltrate my world easily.
Participate in social cause
The good intention towards humanity and nature are the rent we pay to live on this earth and its resources. So, it's also my responsibility make the surrounding better. Reduce my footprint on the earth. Be responsible for the using its resources and keep the surrounding clean and help the needy peoples. Visit NGOs and be the part of the group who work for the societies. Donate at-least 5% of my earning towards the social cause.
Be Stubborn and Be Eccentric
I used to have few traits which always kept me in the game, even when the circumstances were not in favour, be it facing the brutal illness and facing the unemployments for few months and not getting help from my own family. I was so stubborn not to give up. I dreamt of achieving the thing that seemed impossible once. Yes, I was eccentric to believe that I can do it.
With the time I realise that I am not that much stubborn and eccentric to dream big. So, these traits again need to come in my personality. It's time to dream bigger and if I am not stubborn and eccentric, then surely I will not be able to do it.
Work Hard, Play Harder and Raise the Bar
Sometime I feel sluggish towards the work and it gets delayed. I keep postponing the thing out of born laziness. Sometime I delay the work because I have the routine for the day. Now, I realise that routine can be compromised but the works can't be. Let's work hard until the work is complete or body gives up, if the vein in eyes gets burst, let it be, if there is dizziness while work, let it be but the target should not be breached. Period.
Whenever get the time, party harder, let's not put any number on anything while partying. I work hard and deserve the treat. Let every party be memorable.
Let's make the stories worth to be told...
Happy New Year...!!
